The waiting game is certainly the hardest back of attracting your ex back. Most people want to how long they should wait around for their ex to change their mind. Even though every case is different, I have laid out an approximate timetable below…
15 Days or Less: If you’ve been dating for several months and this was your first breakup, then you should be able to reach an understanding relatively quickly. This of course assumes you weren’t lying or cheating on your partner.
30 Days or Less: Couples who always fight about the littlest things often go through a series of breakups. Even you and your partner let your tempers get the best of you, if there is enough attraction there you can usually recover in a month or less.
60 Days or Less: After two months of being apart the momentum is beginning to turn against you. However, there is still plenty of time to patch things up. It takes at least 30 days to make up for early mistakes like begging and stalking, so if you committed any of those no-no’s then it will take you a good 60 days to change your ex’s desire to be with you.
90 Days or More: The three month mark is the unofficial deadline to start seeing some progress with your ex. If you have been working to improve yourself and attract your ex back, then you should have a pretty good idea if your plan is working. If they still won’t talk to you it is either time to get a new strategy or look for love someone else.
Now are there exceptions to this timeline? Of course. This is just a basic overview for folks who are wondering how patient they need to be. Really the key is to look for signals of success. You can’t keep trying the same thing if it is not getting results.
